Is a Hotwife in your future?

Being in the Lifestyle, we see a broad range of sexual appetites and perversions, from mild to wild. It's always fun to talk to other couples at House Parties and discuss what they are into. Swingers in general are typically pretty open with others in the Lifestyle and often talk revolves around what type of sex they are into.

I've been blogging about swinging for the last couple of years and have recently switched over to blogger.com after Wordpress decided that I was too big of a pervert for them. One of my favorite blogs on Wordpress is LoveSmallPenis.wordpress.com.




The couple that has the site, blogs on cuckolding (hotwife) and it's deviations. Cuckolding in the broad definition is the wife being taken by guys, with large dicks, as the husband watches. In many cases, the husband has a small dick and enjoys watching his hotwife being fucked by a much larger guy.

Often this also involves a D/s relationship, with typically the hotwife dominating and controlling her sub husband. If you hear of the cuckold being "caged" it refers to the use of a cage type device to lock up the penis so that the husband cannot jerk off and/or cum without his hotwife's permission. Climax denial helps to focus the husband's attention on her as he cannot be satisfied without her permission.

To be honest, I had never thought about this kink until I ran across Hottie and Steve on their website. After reading some of their posts, I realized that several couples we know are into it but had just never used the term "cuckolding" to describe it. One of our best friends is a couple whose husband is a voyeur and loves to watch his MILF wife get laid. To him, the best thing is to hide in a closet, while he watches. Everyone knows he's there and what he's doing but for him the act of hiding and peeping makes everything more exciting for him.

His wife is the classic nymphomanic who loves to fuck and so in my mind, they are the perfect couple. The biggest problem was that she was straight initially, which didn't go over well with my wife. So now we climb in bed together with her husband in the closet, jerking off and as she has warmed up to girl-on-girl. I guess she was so used to being with guys, she never tried girls but wifey is bringing her over to the dark side.

It's funny that in our world, no one calls you weird or sick for the things you like to do and that's one of the great things about swinging. You have to have an open mind to participate and so others accept your kinks as you do theirs.

If you are a little on the short side and think you'd enjoy watching your wife get taken care of, you might consider trying it out. At first I suggest, with any kink like this do it in fantasy mode initially with a big dildo and pretend she has some guy drilling her lights out.

For the future hotwife, if hubby suggests it, don't think that he doesn't love you and remember that there is a big difference between making love and fucking. If you've never had a guy hit bottom before and fill you completely up, girls tell me it's a great feeling. I know just watching the face of a girl when I deep dick her is worth the price of admission.