I Love The Hunt

One of the nice things about swinging, is hooking up with a new girl/couple and going to bed with a new person for the first time. As far as couples go, we are low key and never pressure anyone. At least that's the way I'd like to think we are.

A friend of ours is gay and he always says that he has "Gaydar" and can identify any gay people in the room, just by looking around. Well I don't think we have "Swingdar" but it seems that we are really lucky at meeting new couples and getting together with them.




Living in Sin City, the opportunities are endless with all the people coming to Vegas to cut loose for a few days before going back to the hills of Minnesota. If we are in a club, wifey and I will share our opinions on who we think is hot and often try and check them out to find new prospects. It's easy to initiate eye contact with someone else in a club and mosey over close enough to chat with them. The girls will often meet up in the bathroom and come out talking.

If they seem to be a fun couple, you can start chatting them up. We don't cling to each other so it's easy to split up and start a conversation with the other half. Then typically a little dancing and small talk to find out that they are willing to try new things.

There is so much to see here that it's easy to start walking the Strip and visiting the various casinos to see the outside shows such as the fountains, volcano's, etc. Then it's natural to just start talking to the girl and pointing out the sights. Then when your walking and she holds your hand or slips her arm around yours, you know the possibilities are good.

Generally they kind of beat around the bush with, "Is your wife going to get upset?" or something like that. When they realize everything is cool, it's fun to see how far it goes. A lot of times it just ends up being a fun night or weekend but a reasonably decent percent of the time we might end up in a soft swing or the full monty.

A lot of times, you can just watch how a couple acts to see if they've thought about swinging and are trying to figure out how to go about it. Of course there is the obvious swingers who are easy to spot by their actions and clothes they wear (or don't).

We've always enjoyed the Lifestyle and love the people we meet and the easy going nature of swingers in general.