Is Swinging Cheating?

A question I get often is something to the effect of, "How can you cheat on your wife? I could never cheat!" Well you may find this hard to believe but we don't cheat and we don't consider swinging as cheating.

In one way swinging helps prevent cheating as sex with another is not in the backseat of a car or a Motel 6 but in a comfortable bed and sometimes (often?) with the help of our partners. I never have to come up with an excuse of where I was on Friday afternoon.

If you have stepped out on your other half, don't you wish you could tell someone about it especially if it was mind blowing? Well I get to tell my wife and other friends we party with and it's a lot easier than trying to remember what I told her I was doing when I was doing something I shouldn't have been doing! (Lots of "doing" in that sentence. LOL)

Stripper Meets Girlfriend

Today I was reading a blog posting from one of my favorite girls, RougedMount, where she was talking about running into a lover, who was with his wife and she was with her hubby. It made me think of years ago, I had a similar circumstance.

At the time, I was dating this girl and one Saturday afternoon with nothing to do, I stopped into a private club that had just opened. I had been in there several times at night but didn't know anybody until that fateful Saturday.